iRelate Initiative

I t is quite appalling how people come face to face with opportunities everyday and loose them to lack of confidence in themselves and in their abilities. this is why this subject has become very necessary in our relating with people and in our work. Confidence is a very necessary tool for enjoying your life and relating with people effectively.  I t is not a gift, but rather it is a fruit we bear that requires skill which must be developed. Think Positive! confidence has to do with the way you see yourself and your dispositions. when people look at you, all they see is your thoughts portrayed in your action. so when you think of yourself as inadequate and not up to standard, then there is something that makes you think that of yourself which must be dealt with but unless you change your thoughts by seeing your abilities instead of your shortcomings, you may never be able to deal with those shortcomings, and as long as you still think that way, you will be sending that same...

Goodmorning and welcome to another new day to maximize opportunities. This ingredient is something that we all need in our lives and can only have more of, when we can give more if it. People tend to want people to respect them but never give it to people. In every relationship respect is defined as a feeling of differential regard or admiration for someone. I believe everyone will need to hear this; respect is not one sided. some people think that once they are ahead of you, you are now to respect them and then if you don't they get angry and react. Here are some things you must know about respect;  1 .It should be given both ways : There is a saying that "respect is reciprocal" it has to be from boss to staff, from husband to wife, parents to their children, older child to younger child, senior staff to junior staff and vice versa. 2 . It is not to be demanded but to be earned : people wont respect you just because you are their boss or you are senior to t...

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Good morning friends, welcome to another beautiful day to maximize opportunities. ' Today we shall discuss a very crucial topic and that is How To Find True Love. A lot of people have been misled in their search for true love in relationships and this is why we shall be treating this today. I have heard sayings that trying to find true love is like trying to do the impossible and this has proven to be true based on research. The more you seek it, the more it keeps running away from you; so many hearts have been broken in search of this one major life ingredient and more are still being broken. The truth is that true love does exist and is a major part of life that makes it worth living, we cannot enjoy life without it and  finding someone who will care for you and treat you like a queen or a king in your marriage or relationship is absolutely possible with many proofs to show. I have studied relationships for over 10 years now and i have come to discover that you don...

Good morning friends and welcome to another beautiful day! This day is full of opportunities that we must recognize and maximize to realize our dreams and achieve our goals. I pray for you today that you won’t miss your opportunities In Jesus Name! Our focus today is on this particular virtue which every man and woman who seek to be influential and command respect must possess. Defined as compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others, Charisma is the ability to draw people to you. If we must achieve our goals in life, we must know how to attract people to ourselves and this is charisma. You can do this not just by talking to people about yourself, but talking to yourself about people, which also is thinking about people, finding out something good about them and devising ways to add something to make them better. Someone once said, “The most pleasant sound to peoples ears is their name” In the same way, people love you more when you talk about them r...

Good morning friends, I hope you all had a great weekend, because I so enjoyed mine. Welcome on board a new week which promises to be a fruitful one for those who will tap into the opportunities as they present themselves to us. Today we shall be looking at a very rare and so highly priced virtue in our society. Truthfulness is a key stone in the foundation for success in life. Virtues as we may know are more important in this world than riches; but what we see in this present day is that people sell off their virtues just to make money because of lack of a sense of value and priority. And now in our day to day relationships, the arrival of the social and communication media, have greatly increased the opportunity for people to tell lies. Now someone can be in a place and say they are in another, thinking they are smart, not knowing they have just traded something more important for something temporary. Every businessperson trades to make profit by giving away something to g...

The most vital ingredient in every relationship but quite misunderstood by many... Love is defined in the dictionary as a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Love has an emotional aspect of it but is not a feeling of emotion as many have made it appear, for this reason, it has been so abused and used in place of Lust. A guy tells a lady, If you love me, you would allow me to sleep with you, and because of sentiments, this ladies  let themselves be abused and later they are dumped. But here's the true meaning of love from the originator Himself.....God! Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with an...