How To Boost Confidence

It is quite appalling how people come face to face with opportunities everyday and loose them to lack of confidence in themselves and in their abilities. this is why this subject has become very necessary in our relating with people and in our work.



Confidence is a very necessary tool for enjoying your life and relating with people effectively. It is not a gift, but rather it is a fruit we bear that requires skill which must be developed.

Think Positive!
confidence has to do with the way you see yourself and your dispositions. when people look at you, all they see is your thoughts portrayed in your action. so when you think of yourself as inadequate and not up to standard, then there is something that makes you think that of yourself which must be dealt with but unless you change your thoughts by seeing your abilities instead of your shortcomings, you may never be able to deal with those shortcomings, and as long as you still think that way, you will be sending that same message to the people you relate with by your words and actions automatically.

Who am I to me?

Now when you look at yourself in the mirror what do you see? whatever it is can be changed or
developed as long as you don't try to look like someone else. for example if its your hair that needs to be fixed then do that, if its the way you smell that reduces your confidence, then get a cologne and fix the problem. It might even be your use of English that you don't find good enough, all you need to do is read more and develop your grammar and your vocabulary. The truth is the world is full of materials today that can help you upgrade yourself into the person you want to be. all you need to do is keep learning and never stop improving on yourself daily.



Who you are originally.
Every man and woman was created by God with a unique gifting and talent something that no one else has; which explains why no two persons have the same finger prints. you don't have to be like anybody, only find what you have been given, learn how to use it to impact people and then begin from somewhere.

probably you now know you have a gift and don't know how to use it to bless people. The truth is, there are lots of things we want to do that we find ourselves not doing the way we should, like programming our minds with the right things e.g(God's word) because the mind must be rightly programmed to produce right thoughts and actions. This is where we need God's help. everyone that is made by God requires God to live a life of fulfillment because He knows us best.

Before you can have confidence in yourself, you must first of all have confidence in your maker and then believe in the promises He made to you. it is in believing and declaring those promises of life and pleasure in Him forever that you find yourself acting confidently and fulfilling your God-given purpose in life. Embrace Him today and begin to live.