HOW TO HANDLE DIFFICULT UNEXPECTED SITUATIONS

In life, everyday comes with its own turbulence and most times we face more than one at a time. our focus in this topic today is not how to stop difficult unexpected situations from coming but how to handle them when they come.

The woman in the picture above for those who might not know her is named Iyanla Vazant. A woman famous for her strength of character and will. she lost it all, career, husband, children and wealth but she still pulled through and came out stronger and better than before. you can read about her life's ordeal.

Jm Rohn a man renowned for his immense impact on great leaders of our time, whose philosophy was based on personal development said this " Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better; Don't wish the problems were lesser, rather wish you were more skillful" in other words, don't avoid the problem, improve yourself to always have a solution when the problem arises.

Here are a few ways you can handle difficult unexpected situations when they arise.

1. Remain calm and clear headed - Don't be agitated, or thrown off balance. maintain your composure and then think.

2. Focus on the solution- Instead of discussing the problem, seek the solution. for a every problem there is a solution.

3. Focus on your behaviour - Focus on what you can control, since you can't control other peoples reaction or what comes to you, focus on being the best you can be in the midst of that situation.

4. Pick the best solution - While focusing on your behaviour, find out the best way to behave in every situation using the bible as your manual for knowing how you should function best at every situation to avoid errors and repetition.

5. Remember the law of sowing and reaping - Whatever you do is waiting for you in a multiplied state in the future. therefore be careful to only do the right things.

6. Celebrate your victory - when you finally find the solution, no matter how small you think it is, every victory is worth celebrating. No  victory is small, it is all about your value system.

Final words, Nothing changes until you change your approach. The key to your better future is you!

Peace